Over 13 years have passed since my mother died and I still miss her terribly. Sometimes, moving on is not what the heart would agree to. I still love her so much and i have tried to move on and just concentrate on myself but i miss her i feel like a part of me is missing without her in my life. and im still struggeling with the idea of re-pursuing her. Recent Top. Sometimes I feel a subtle guilt for the times I am with others but my thoughts stray to her. Where im right there with you. By subscribing, you agree to the terms of our Privacy Statement. Stuck in that horrible night when she took her last breath in front of me and my dad. I know that her and I would never work out due to her mental health issues (trust me I tried many times over the 7 year relationship with several professionals and a strong support team but it was no help). 0 0. Backstory: I started “dating” this girl back in 5th grade. Melanie Mullan reflects back on special memories that were made before her grandmother passed away in December. I miss her so very much. I miss her so very much. Much its been a year and i find it harder then the first year and the first Was a nightmare. Yes, I work, I take care of "things", I take care of my daughter, but I still feel more like a shell. It’s been 3 months. Dating is just so friggin hard, especially online dating! Relationship. Follow. People, including my own family, tell me to just forget her and get over her. I can completely understand what you are going threw. I hope she knows I always wanted what was best for her. Murray Mar 7, 2018 at 9:39 pm. It has been 10 months. It has been 10 months. I say this from experience: my high-school sweetheart (together 3 years) left me very abruptly several years ago at the end of our junior year. Today I still miss her…. Every now and then she comes back into my mind for some reason but some days are worse then others. it makes it hard. When our family learned that she had pancreatic cancer and that she had only a matter of months … almost same reasons. Facebook. i commend you.   Pasted as rich text. but still she luvs to spend time with me at the end of the 1st month she said tat she loves me!! No matter how hard you try to let go, sometimes it just doesn't work. I deleted all the pictures of us, our dog that she kept, everything that reminded me of her. Is it strange to still see her face in heated visions? 5 Reasons You Still Miss Your Abusive Ex! slaymaloley1:I Remember when this photo shoot killed me the... DMCA. Don't get me wrong, I know how important it is to move on. In October, we had a heated argument and he decided to end things for good. I wish I could say I've moved on, but I haven't. I went through this exact same thing many years ago. The heart wants what it wants. His love sustains me in a way, I talk to him all the time, and I can 'feel' him very often. I don't wanna see her but do you think she thinks about me? Prior to that we dated for about 2.5 years and we had to break-up because we had multiple obstacles/complications (I don't know how about now, but back then I could definitely tell it wasn't the feelings issue - besides she told me straight up it wasn't that). I am heartbroken, i don't know what to do and i don't feel like i can ever be myself again. I have been more depressed than ever it seems cuz my mom passed here in my house and I found her (she lived w me), so I have left her room alone since she passed April 2018. In fact, I’m almost done writing a book on this subject. It’s been two months since my ex-girlfriend and I broke up—or since she broke up with me, I should say—and I’m miserable. I've been through hell and back, and I still make the journey quite often. daughter and i. I miss him so…. It’s been a year. That doesn't mean you can't find someone as special or who makes you as happy, just that it will be different. You can post now and register later. He was my best Friend my lover and a great father to our children My pain is unbearable. Why can't I just get over that break up it been a year. . I have been in serious relationships before, been married, have kids, but have never been hit this hard before. I think about her everyday and although in a way I feel like I've moved on from her in a sense that I am very open to new love, I feel that I'm definitely not over her at all. Discover more posts about its-been-7-months-and-i-still-miss-her-so-much!!!. In October, we had a … My ex and I broke up 5 months ago after 2 1/2 years because she "didn't love me anymore", but everyday I still miss her and want her back more than anything. This is Scamp, she was my husbands cat before I came along and she sort of adopted me once I came into the picture. I just miss her so much and I wish I didn't. Upload or insert images from URL. Look like you are moving on When your ex is over hating you, you need to show him/her that you are moving on. It has been 6 months since the first dog’s death, Nugget. This is normal. I think of her warmth, of her flesh, the caring embraces and passionate kisses. She said we will talk in a couple months but i am a farmer i am always working and when im not im with her so when i am working so hard alone all day i would be so happy to come home to her but anyway ive come to terms and ive been giving her space to hopefully get back together . I still love her like I did and it doesn't feel like I can get over her. its been a month since then and i have good days and bad days thinking about her but still think about her every day, the past couple of days have been really bad days. It hurts like hell. I don't know what to do. When we split in high-school it was a nasty breakup and 'never again' was used repeatedly by us both but the passage of time somehow washed those negative feelings away. She had motor neurone disease and although it took her ability to walk away and caused her so much pain, she chose to stay with me and I cared for her every need. Wm. 0 0. The person has shown keen interest in me but i'm not interested and find myself comparing them to my ex. 2 Months After Breakup: It's Been Two Months After A Breakup, It Still Hurts. × Alright. Little things draw me back. I still dream about him sometimes, I still wake up occassionally thinging of him. you broke me. She was amazing, caring, loving, strong, beautiful, generous, protective, warm, and always knew how to take my tears away and make me smile. Its been a month since we broke up. its been almost 8 months, i found out my wife was gone, it still feels like yesterday, Im lost, I miss my girl, peole do not seem to understand when you say She is my Everything, she wasn’t “just” my wife. It hurts like hell. She was the sweetest, little dog (60 pounds) and I still have vivid memories of her. Photos Videos Latest. I moved out of state and I guess that and the fact that we were having some problems and argued quite easily were the reasons why we didn't stay to together. I can't understand how being in a ten month relationship with someone as friendly as my ex has not made any contact with me in four months . her birthday came and went back in August and I chose not to text her or anything. Mourning/Loss. From my observations, if you pestered your ex for a month, two or three, it usually takes at least half a year to get unblocked or contacted again. It's been 3 months and I still miss her. When I think of the relationship, I only think of the good times and the beginning of the relationship, but then I stop myself and force myself to think about the other parts. I was with my ex for 4 years. can anyone help me out.. i ve been dating this girl for 6 months she never believed that this would last and usually tells me tat its not gonna work!! When I do think about my ex now, I think of her as a stranger, because that is what she has become to me. Will I ever forget him? Reply. If your ex was a jerk, you won’t miss him. Man, I feel like I might be making a post like this several months down the road. Tonya Phillips January 6, 2021 at 8:11 pm Reply. I really liked him, but he was fed up of me and wanted me to find someone better to look after me. I deleted all the pictures of us, our dog that she kept, everything that reminded me of her. but so far no luck in job and i keep missing her. There are times I feel I have moved on, and the pain is not near what it used to be but it's still there. yeah i know what u mean, i sent my ex a notice about donuts. But you still feel that nagging pang in your soul. I was with my ex for 4 years. It was 7 months ago. I have been single since the break up. I don't think it's abnormal to feel this way. its been 6 months and i still miss my ex girlfriend? I still miss my dog. So yes you are normal and anyone who thinks your crazy is dumb. A lot of times we feel that to reverse a break up we need to go on this hounding trip and once we are done begging our ex will reconsider his decision. Twitter. My girlfriend of 8 years died 7 months ago in a tragic car accident. I thought time heals pain. To wonder how she is feeling, hoping she is doing well. Log in Sign up. Read this: 14 Things Its Time You Forgave Yourself For, Read this: 30 Quotes That Will Make You Rethink What Love Means, Read this: 21 People On How You Know You’re In Love, 40 Things I Thought About Saying But Didn’t When We Unexpectedly Ran Into Each Other, I Don’t Think You Ever Really Get Over A ‘Breakup’ With A Friend, The Truth About Intimacy And HS, From Someone Who Has Had It For 23 Years, 17 Men On What Gives Them Second Thoughts After A Breakup, You Will Always Be The Greatest Love Of My Life, 25 People Explain Why They No Longer Speak To Their Mother, 11 Men On The Excruciatingly Honest Thing They Miss About Their Ex, What It’s Like to Miss Someone You’ve Never Met. ignisgayentia. November 1, 2018 at 12:59 pm. but i miss mine like crazy, i have no words to assist you here. Clear editor. imissyoulikecrazy.tumblr.com. Though, if you ever need to talk to someone you can PM me. Someone who wasn’t online and I could put my arms around. 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